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Q> dear phoebe,
how are you doing?well i hope you are fine.well first i want to tell you im like the biggest charmed fan ever i love everything about the show i watch re-runs on tnt.im obbesessed really(lol).well anyways though i have a problem.well i am bisexual and yeah its a big thing for many people but i think you can give me some advice on something serious.well anyways though my best friend she likes me and we dated for a couple of weeks and than we broke up.we are still friends but she never really got over the break up.so we dated again and than i told her that i like this boy named daniel and i mean i really like him and at the same time i dont wanna break michelle's heart and hurt her again what should i do.should i stay with her and just act like i dont like david or break up with marisa and be with daniel i dont know because i like daniel more than anyone and if i do break up with michelle than i wouldnt know how to tell her again that it is over please give me some advice on what i should do.thank you remember i love charmed and always will you are great you bring phoebe to live and so do all the other cast members well ill let you go
love always
bernadette c.
A> Dear Bernadette C,
I'm sorry for the love triangle.. If you really do know that you and Daniel have some attraction with each other, I think you should be able to be with him instead. I'm sorry about Michelle, but, if she's been your best friend before you two were together, than, she'd understand.. If she also has some attitude afterwards, then, it's normal.. It just means she didn't want to be in so much grief not being with you... If you're really into Daniel, first thing's first... Try having Michelle get OUT of attraction of you.. Try getting her to be into some other person. Who you know has the same qualities as her and who would really like her too. Basically, just try finding her someone else.. That way, you can be with Daniel, and no one's experiencing any sort of depression... Good luck on this!
Love always,
Phoebe
Q> Dear Phoebe,
before I start I want you to know that I love the film. Well, my big problem is that I am in love with one of my teachers in high school and simultaniusly with one of my classmates.I'm in love with the first one for 2 yaers & wiyh the second one for 3 months & I don't know whitch one to chose.Please help me.Oh,the first one is married,he's 32 years old and I am only 14.I'll be waiting for your answer impatiently.
Love,
Anonimous.
A> Dear Anonymous,
Sorry for taking so long... First off... Are you positively sure you're in love with a teacher? He's married and 32. I say stick with the classmate. You two will most likely have most things in common and you know he's single. Honey, take my advice.. Forget the teacher. You have to trust me on this one. Be friends with him first, get to know him better. And when you know he likes you back, try to make the relationship work. Hope for the best.
Peace and Love,
Phoebe
Q> Dear phoebe,
I need help. I think im in love w/ me best guy friend, and I think
he likes me to. At first we made fun of each other and are crushes we had.
But lately he dosnt want to hear my crushes (and i definatly dont wanna hear
about his) and he always trys to make me smile at him. If i tell him I like
him and he donst like me , it will ruin are friendship. So how do i find out
with out losing him?
-Love always
Adrienne
A> Dear Adrienna,
I'm sorry for not emailing back in a while. Been busy. All apologies...;
Adrienna, stay into the friendship a little longer. Maybe he really does
like you, but then again... Try not to jump into things at the moment. Maybe
try to get a friend to ask him if he really does like you. It sounds like it
to me that he does like you. I hope you didn't do anything yet though. Take
my advice, take it slowly. Be a better friend to him now than when you were
before. But, try to show a little attraction to him at times. You know,
maybe even flirt. I hope things go well for you and how you want it,
Adrienna.
Love Always,
Phoebe
Q> dear phoebe hi before i start i just want to let u no i loooovvvveeeee the show. well first off i need to tell u i practice magic im not sure if im a witch yet but thats not my problem. my problem is my parents, im afraid to tell them. please help me. u can reach me at ________@yahoo.com
A> Dear Anonymous,
Practicing magic takes alot of practice. It's very intricate to even do one spell before knowing what you're doing. Parent's don't really want to know about their child doing wicca, so I suggest never telling them. Though, I also suggest for you not to do magic at all. Because spells back fires, and I don't want you getting hurt by any chance. I don't want you to take that risk... So, please... Take my advice and try to quit, I also don't want you to do any magic that is personal gain... Thanks for watching the show, it brings a smile to my face knowing you're a fan. :)
Love always,
Phoebe
Q> Dear Phoebe:
My name is Lian.
Are you really Alyssa Milano?
Anyway, there is this guy that i love with all my heart, but he went back to his country, and it hurts so much. I miss him very much, and can't stop thinking about him a second. He knows that i love him, but he won't say anything, and that hurts even more. What should I do?
PS. I am a very big fan of Charmed, I never miss an episode.
Thank you. Bye.
you can e-mail me to: _________@hotmail.com
A> Dear Liana,
Nope, I'm not really Alyssa Milano... I'm an advice columnist/consultant. I'm sorry that your love had been moved back... Have you guys kept contact? If you guys haven't, then the best thing to do is try to move on. I know the process will work very slowly.. But, when the time is right, you'll know when you have someone else to love. Remember how me and Cole went through all though's obstacles to be with each other? Well.. That shows how in love we are.. Although, there comes a time in life where you have to let them go. I cried for Cole, I did anything for him, and it took me a long time to get over him. But, eventually, I did. And now I got Jason, whom, I love so dearly. I know it hurts inside to miss someone, so that's why I say to let everything out. Cry, let all though's tears out. You just need some inspiration, and I hope the love that I had to go through helped you with that.
Love always,
Pheobe
Q> dearest phoebe
i have always been told there is no such thing as magic, but im beggining to doubt that. i know things before they happen, and i can open and close doors.
i think you are the greatest and if you think i am crazy then say.
thankyou.
yours faithfully
vicci
A> Dear Vicci,
Sorry it's been a while to email back... Sometimes magic is real and sometimes magic is fake. You just have to really set your mind to it and believe in it. Bur just don't do any bad magic or any negative supernatural beings... It's not healthy... But I wouldn't really count on magic for you.. BUT, I do believe something you have can help others. So try to be an assistance to people.
Love and Peace,
Phoebe
Q> dear Phoebe,
lately I've felt like a third wheel around moi friends. My one friend "H" (just using first enitials) has been starting to hang out more with moi other friend "J" and is always around and talking and ext.. to her and I get almost totally left out some of the times. The moi other friend "J2" has been hanging out with another person also "k." Me and "k" aren't the best of friends but we talk once and a while. and again I seem to be left out almost all the time. I've started to find myself walking down the halls in school by myself instead of with moi friends like everybody else, and it's lonely. I've hinted to "J2" that I have been feeling left out but she didn't seem to get it. I haven't told "H" anything yet though. I don't want either "H" or "J2" to feel like I'm a jelous friend, but it gets kinda lonely like I said before. and I really don't want them to get mad at me for being jelous because I've been in i guess you could call 2 "groups" of friends before and they both ditched me for the more popular kids, and you have no idea how that hurts and I don't want it to happen again. I'm not saying I don't have any friends but the ones I'm around the most have been leaving out in the background it seems. I have no idea of what to do, I love moi friends (in a strait way) and I don't want new ones but I don't want them to think I'm jelous either. I know I should be happy that they have alot of friends but i've felt all alone the past few weeks. What should I do?
Peace Light and Love,
lonely
A> Dear Lonely,
I'm so very sorry to hear this... This also has been an experience from one of my best friends in the past too. In the basic thing she did was that she just went straight out and told her. Not trying to tell you to tell her in a negative way, but to the point where you are very angry at the point that they're neglecting you! Once you can't stand it anymore, just tell them. I know that there is a moment where one of your friends doesn't have anyone to talk or walk with at school, so most likely they will come to you for a back-up, trust me, this happened to me before... If/When that happens to you, do what they've always done to you, try to ignore them and talk to another friend. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but go with the flow too, as in, act perhaps.. Hyper. Do it constantly until you can TELL they've noticed your attitude. And later, give them their taste of their own medicine and say something like, "Now you know how it feels..." Look disghusted, look ashamed at the fact your best friends do this to you. Don't be afraid, fight back. If they try to turn this situation around, think ahead of them because they would always do that. I know you don't want to do any of this because it sounds mean and you don't want to lose them or anything, but if they are truly your best friends, then they will understand how you've been feeling. Otherwise, if they just become so mean to you about this, you can make new friends. I know you don't want to, but they just have to understand.. I truly hope this turns out well.
Peace and love,
Phoebe
Q> Dear Phoebe,
I have a lot of problem, but right now only 2 of them are really bugging me.
(1) I think I am a real witch, but I really can't tell. I mean I know things sometimes before they happen and others right when they happen. If you want an example here is one, once a teacher was announcing 3 winners for a prize and I new I was one of them.I've got lots more examples if needed.Phoebe please help me this is really freaking me out.(P.S.- Please tell me if you think I am a witch).
(2)There is a guy at school who likes me and I like him, but neither of us will say so.We both know the other likes the other.Phoebe what do I do?
A> Dear Anonymous,
Im VERY sorry it has been a while since I finally emailed you... You know what's been happening to me lately, with the sisters and all...
1.) Well, I don't necessarily think you're a witch, but some sort of.... Small empath perhaps? Or maybe some sort of De Ja Vu or an instinct. Instincts are really the way to go, and if you've been having it frequently, then I think you should go with the flow. Most likely, they are instincts. But if that instinct grows stronger and you know what's going to happen in the farther future, then maybe it can be a power. But don't freak out, it's what you were given and maybe to help too! So use it wisely, otherwise, it'll turn on you.
2.) Well, if you guys both like each other, then just go ask him out! But I know how us females tend to be shy, so maybe you can have your friends to help you in the relationship. Maybe even ask your friends to ask him why he hasn't asked you out yet. And later on, your friends can tell him that you like him too. Friends will help you out when you're in need. So you can trust them.
Hope that answers all your questions! And sorry for the delay again!
Peace and Love,
Phoebe
Q> dear phoebe
hi my name is Chanel
my friends call me piper if you want you can call me piper any way
i have a problem with my boyfriend right OK so here's what happen
we wanted to see other people right will he wants to hook back up with me but i need space from him i need to movie on with my life i don't have feelings for him anymore i just Need space like what piper told Leo she need space and that' s what i need from him ya know OK will e-mail me if you can OK my e-mail address is _______@yahoo.com
PS i wanted to know if we could be friends
o by the way phoebe thanks for all ways being there for your fans
OK bye the power of 5 will let you guys have normals lifes
A> Dear mini Piper aka Chanel,
First off, my apologies for not contacting you in quite some time... I've been caught up on other work I have... Hope you can forgive me!
Well, if you want some space from him, then just calmly tell him. And if you know he can't really take the small rejection, tell him you're going to have to think about it. Or you're not sure yet. The thing that works for me is that I'm really busy with what all the work and that I don't want him to be caught up with all the mess too, and it really is true! You can tell him that. Say something like your grades are slipping, or something that relates to your education that you have to stay focused more on. I hope he really understands!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> Hi Phoebe,
I really want to be a singer, I really am talented, I am in my 4 choirs 2 choirs at school and 2 choirs at school, they tell me to get into that kind of stuff but it isnt working, I havn't been discovered yet. It makes me sad because it has always been my dream, and no matter how much i try, I CANT GET DISCOVERED! plus we live in a small town so no talent shows come around at the YMCA, or anywhere else. I really need to be discovered, please help me!
 *~Paige Johnson~*
A> Dear Paige,
Im VERY sorry it's been almost.. A month now... I have been busy, and it's been difficult for me to answer my advice columns! Well, it'll take some time to be discovered. It might even take more than time, maybe weeks, months, years. But you can do some research on how and where to act and sing. If you live in a small town, go some place where you know the city never sleeps! Maybe downtown will give you a head start. Start mailing mails to agencies, call, email, anything you can do to get closer to the spot light. Don't let a little town stop you, go ahead and start contacting them! :) Most likely, it helps when you call them. Go and start your research and good luck!
Love always,
Phoebe Q> Heya,
I have so many problems it isn't funny.(okay maybe a little funny)
1. I have a so-called friend who I've been friends with for a while but about last year she starting acting sarcastic, mean, and rude. She would make fun, "pinch", and just not act nicely. I told her to stop a few times last year, and even stopped talking to her for about a week. I think it hit her and she stopped for a while, but she is back to her old sarcasism again. It's like sometimes were the best of friends and other times worst of enemys. But I can't stop being friends with her because she is "nice" to my other friends and friends with them, so if I stop being her friend I'm affraid they will stay her friend and not mine. I'v gone without having anyfriends two times already and I'm only 12 and It's not that I can't live without friends but its hard to make new ones and it takes a while to start ot trust them. I still don't trust any of them with my secrets.
2. There is this one guy who likes my one friend, but he is to scared to confront her about it and I have to take take notes and give them to one another. the problem is my friend "hates his guts," thats the nicest way I could put it but he won't get over it and keeps me in the middle of it all. It is getting really annoying and this guy is like twice my size so I'm scared to tell him that she absolutly hates him, but I'm tired of being in the middle of it. what do I do?
3. My friends and family find me obsessed with your show. I spend all my time on the computer reading scripts or something to do with charmed. My desktop and everything is charmed. I love watching the show so much its like a whole new world of stuff. lol* but I find myself thinking about the episode I'm missing in the middle of my reading class and thats not real good, because my focus is gone. I download charmed calenders, pic.s, and other stuff. I don't want to stop watching the show but I dont want to be obsessed either.
*multi-problems*
A> Dear multi-problems,
Sorry I haven't responded, I've been quite busy, as you can tell..
1.) I see you're really annoyed by your friend lately.. Well, beat her at her own game. There's gotta be a time where she begins to complain about you being sarcastic to her than she is to you, and you can just tell her that she finally know's how it feels to be her. She seems like she's not a real good friend. So just tell her out, girl! Try talking to out, make a conversation. To tell you the truth, that's a not a real way I can tell you how to make it go through her mind. You just have to find a way to REALLY convince her into letting her know how she acts. Maybe ask why she acts so differently around her, as in, she acts nicer to her friends than you. Just ask flat out, why're you being so rude, constantly? And if she says she doesn't know what she's talking about, just tell her what you've been thinking for all this time.
2.) You don't have to be caught in the middle of this love chain. Just break it and let loose. No one's actually forcing you to be in the middle. Since it's his size you're scared at, leave that alone, I know I would, hehe. Well, tell him lightly that she doesn't like him. Just say that you found out, no harmful damage should be dealt with.
3.) I understand about your obsession with the show, I've heard that other people have been too. You can't really help it, it's just a little thing that happens. the thing is, it doesn't really matter what other people think about your obsession, you just have to see if it really effects your life. And according to what I heard about your studies, all I can say is just don't think about it as much. If I had the power to let ago the obsession, I promise, I would try to help you on that, otherwise, Leo's not around, hehe. But thanks for being such a fan of Charmed!!!
Love always,
Phoebe
Q> Hey Phoebe,
uummm... i need some advice about my problem with my best friend. My best friend, Ebony, has this boyfriend (who i absolutely HATE, cos he treats her like CRAP! and he is constantly lying to her)!! Ebony is like my bestest friends in the whole world, i would do almost anything for her. but recently its like she is just shutting me out, i havent spoken to her in like a week, she is either too busy at work, or too busy with her dickhead of a boyfriend! its like she just doesnt want to spend any time with me anymore...and i really miss her, cos we've been friends for ages and its like ever since she got a boyfriend its like he has sorta replaced me! :( i dont know what to do!! what do u think i should do??
Please help me...
email me: _______@hotmail.com
From Angela...
A> Dear Angela, Sorry for the looong hiatus... Well, the advice with your best friend problem is to find a perfect timing to talk to her. The phone is never a way to have a serious conversation. Try to catch up on her in class, or maybe during lunch? Somewhere where you absolutely KNOW that she is practically doing nothing. And if she even tries to shut you out, ask her why she didn't do anything before you came to talk to her. She has no excuse, and if she makes one up, still try to talk to her. Maybe invite her to the movies or the mall. Ask her if she can go anywhere with you alone, you know, not with ehr boyfriend. In other words, say you guys haven't hung out in a long time and that you need your best friend spending time. It may sound corny, but it's worth a shot. Keep asking when you guys can go out. I know how hard it feels to have someone close to you have a boyfriend that doesn't even worth the time... But don't say that to her just yet. Wait for the right time, maybe even with him around. If you see him treat her like crap more than at least 5 times, then tell her right away and ask her why she's even still with him? Remember though's times too, that way, you can bring them up. Tell her you want the best for her, and that you don't want to see her get hurt. Boyfriend's come and go, but best friends are forever.
Love ya,
Phoebe
Q> hey phoebes
what's up how are you
OK i really need your help OK any way i have a sister right
and she is having her baby and she wants to name it Wyatt but she wants to know what it means phoebe what does the name Wyatt mean OK i have to go
but e-mail me back here is my e-mail address astatine@Yahoo.com see you later bye
PS e-mail me back asap place OK bu bye am going to watch charmed OK i love charmed bye now
A> Dear anonymous,
My sister picked Wyatt because it was Leo's last name. My nephew's name is Wyatt Matthews Halliwell. Wyatt is for Leo's honor, really. Also, in the book of names, Wyatt also means "little warrior", which to me probably means small and brave. You know, when you're small, you defend of though's you love, also to fight. And if you also want to know, Matthew represent an 'M' in which they were suppose to name their daughter. Since it wasn't Melinda, the middle name is Matthews. Matthew also means in the book "the gift of God. Bible: author of the New Testament book, the Gospel According to Saint Matthew." Stay Charmed!
Peace and Love,
Phoebe
Q> hi pheobe umm i like this guy, i told him i kied him but he won't say anything.waht should i do? Email me at ddalki93@aol.com
with all due respect,
Christine
A> Dear Christine,
Mostly, guys wouldn't respond, but don't worry! It's mostly like that, believe me, it happened to me. He's just shocked at a news like that. Give it some time. If he still doesn't respond in oh.. Say about a week or two, then forget him girl! There's other guys. I remember when I told someone I liked a him when I was younger. He never said a word to me... The thing is, I didn't really pay any attention to it because I knew there's other guys around. You know what I mean? So if this guy wouldn't give you a chance, then guy for another one! There's millions and billions of guys on this earth, that's only one. Bye Christine!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> Hi Phoebe,
Or do you like being called Allyssa? Anyway, I have a cousin and she's
a real slob! She has two little kids, Shyla and Tayler, OH I LOVE THOSE
KIDS TO DEATH!!! Susan, she's a daughter to me. Troy, he is like a
nephew to me. Anyway, Mary, my cousin, she keeps sending her kids off
to their daddies. The kids have different dads. Than my mom and I
think and know that she goes out and parties.
They moved in January and I am not over the fact that Susan is not
here. I am basicly like Piper when Prue died. I am not surpirised that
I am not a Fury. I am going to dress up as one on Halloween thou. I
really need advice about, how to get over it and telling Mary how I
feel.
I know you are busy and everything. But I don't know who to turn
to. I am a lot like Piper and from what I have seen on the show, when
she's mad, people better run!!!! Can you e-mail me at,
kelc_58801nd@yahoo.com Thanks A Lot!!!
Good Luck with Jason... he he
Kelsey (Piper)
A> Dear Kelsey,
Or shall I say little miss Piper? You really are like my sister, you care and worry about others. And if I were you, I would just tell flat out to Misty. The next time you see her go out and party, begin on ranting to her about what's right and wrong. Her children also needs their mommy, trust me, I know the feeling when I can't see my mother... It may not be the same situation as mine, but it's almost similiar. The point is, I know the children wants their mother, they've spend time with their father. If they don't see her enough, they just might not be loyal to her in the future. The kids learn from the parents, and right now, she's sort of neglecting them... Tell her if that she really cares, she would be with her children then go out constantly. I wish you great luck on the family! And me and Jason are doing great! He came back from Hong Kong, and oh how I miss him dearly. Though, he went back.. So maybe we'll have a far distant relationship.
Love Always,
Phoebe
Q> hey phoebe,
i have few problems one is that i like this guy that probably dont know that i exist and two is ok i work at a race track in mobile alabama called mobile international speedway, i have been going to this track since i was 3 years old and this thursday on the 25th i saw this guy not much older than me and we looked into his eyes and i totally forgot about everything else.what do you think i should do ?and do you konw any where i can try out for acting in alabama?because i am 13 and i dont want to waste any time andi want to persue my dreams.but at the high school i want to go to ,i want to try out for the dance team and i have a friend that is suposed to be helping me train for the tryouts in november but when i try to make where we can practice she dosent return my calls and i dont know what to do i am just so lost i want to get back on track can you help me?
*lea*
A> Dear Lea, Sorry for the long hiatus.. I was sorta busy at the moment.. Well, first of all, I believe there's no such thing as someone not knowing you exist. They should at least see you from class, our see you around the hallways. It just takes time to get to know that person. Take my advice for it, try talking to him somehow. Start a conversation. Or if it's possible, if you have a friend that's his friend, maybe get in a group huddle and just say hi and introduce yourself.
And for that guy you met at the race track, it may not be love at first sight, but it can be a first glance attraction. If you are certain that he goes there constantly, then try "accidently" bumping into him, hehe. Make a plan first. Because that use to happen to me when I was oh say.. About 14, 15 years old, and the guy was about 17. I was at the mall with my friends, and this guy and I saw each other for the first time, and there was this.. Attraction. So one of my friends noticed that he kept on staring at me, somehow "flirting". So I told my friends that I will be sitting outside out loud so that the boy will hear too. So I saw next to him. He complimented on the way I dressed, and we started a conversation from there. Try complimenting on the guy you saw at the race track. Say something like, "nice shirt". Or, "nice pants, where did you get it from?" Honey, guys are more into their fashion then us gals do, trust me. :D
For the dance team in high school, you can't just talk to her over the phone, you have to go to her face to face. Remind her that she has the teach you, and if she doesn't listen the first time, remind her constantly. Talking to her through the phone doesn't really help.. Most likely the answering machine will pick up. So to make sure, you have to go up to her at school. And for the acting lessons, maybe try joining in drama classes. And when you get a little older, find a place where you can be discovered. I gotta admit, it does has its price.. So begin saving your money! :)
Love and Peace,
Phoebe
Q> Dear Phoebe,
Well my x boyfriend wonts me back as his girlfriend and my friend don't wont me to go back with him. Because he has broke my heart more then ones. But he says that he has changed. Should I give him another chance? I just don't know what I should do when I love him so much even thow he has put me threw a lot. I understand what she's saying cause she don't want to see me get hurt again. I don't wont to loss my bestfriend but I wont to give him another chance. What should I do? Wright back soon I really need help with this one. Thank you Alyssa for leasing to me and your fans and helping us out with are problems.
Jacklyn
A> Dear Jacklyn,
Your ex boyfriend really has to show that he has changed and really is comitted for you. I know your friends are really trying to help, but to be honest, you have to choose from your heart. Maybe... You can set up a plan. Talk it over with him, like... If he'll ever cheat on you. Ask him something like, "How do I know that you've really changed? What if some hot girl asked you out and you liked her? Would you say yes to her, or would you actually wait for me?" And if he says he still wants to be with you, he has to prove it to you. Get some girl to flirt with him a little and ask him out, if he says yes, then immediately you know he hasn't changed whatsoever. But don't do this right away, make this plan happen in about... a week or so. Otherwise, he's going to know it's a test and just ACT like he's changed. Also, check if he just flirts with other girls. Like I said, if he's very dedicated to you, he wouldn't even look at other girls. Don't answer him right away, give it some time. This is my advice to you, it's your freedom to choose what you feel is right. I hope it turns out the best. Good luck!
Love Always,
Phoebe
Q> Hey, Phoebe
I'm Caroke, I'm from Belgium and I have a little story for you.
My English is not so good yet but I'm working on it. I'll give it a try. I really think that the programme is great!! I have a little question for you but it's not about charmed. Or a little bit. I see that you have some problems with boys in the programme. Well, my boyfriend made our relation broken. He didn't feel himself good with me. I don't know what to do. Can you help me???
Lots of kisses!!
Caroke
A> Dear Caroke,
Yes, yes, I have plenty of problems with guys... And I trully do know how it feels to be heartbroken, really, I am. But be strong. Don't show any sadness around him. The more you feed onto sorrow in front of him, the more he just night now care. Guys are guys, they really are scared of being in a relationship and wanting it to grow stronger, at least, it depends on the boy. If your last boyfriend was like that, Show no sympathy, show no guilt. Act real normal around him. I can't lie to you about this, it does take time, may take a long time to get over him, may only take a few more days or weeks, but remember this, there are lots of other guys for you. Even better too! There's more than 5 billion people in the whole world, this is only one, you have much more left to be with! Who shares the same things as you, does the same things as you.
Love and Peace,
Phoebe
Q> Hey alyssa,
Are you relly busy at the moment or something cause you havnt relly replied to my letter in ages I wish they didnt take charmed off now there is nothing to watch on thursday nights and there is nothing to look forward to after a long week at skewl it really really suck magorily I wish that they would leave you girrls alone and just let you do your own thang . it annoys me that we cant have at least one whole year of charmed on but no they always have to change the time table all the time i really hate it it is so P%$ing me off .Do you get my little emotions and my emails in colour.If you dont that sucks any whom can you answer this how can i be noticed if i live in acountry bumpkin town cause i want to be singer or an actress.
Well i gosta go
Rhiannon
A> Dear Rhiannon,
Im UTTERLY sorry I haven't been replying from your emails.. Yes, I've been very busy lately... Well, if you really want to be an actress, it's that good ole' fashion school work. Apply for a course into drama. And if you don't have drama at school, audition into a play. And if you want to be a singer, go into choir in school and/or join a choir anywhere else, like church. If you really want to be noticed, then you work as hard you can, do your best, show people that you really want to do this in your life. Show no symapthy, don't give up, practice makes perfect!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> Dear Phoebe,
I don't really believe that you're Phoebe Halliwell or Alyssa Milano, but
I could use your advice just the same. I used to have this best
friend.....let's just call her Mary. We had almost EVERYTHING in common.....it
was almost
like we had parallel lives! The only problem was that it got to the point where
we had too much in common and soon couldn't agree over
anything.....especially our singing group with one of my other friends. I'm not
going to lie and say
this is all her fault, I have to take some blame too. Pretty soon she quit
the group and began being a real bitch (and calling me one) Then we were no
longer friends....then we were.....and so on. She really hurt me, but every time
we tried to work things out, I ended up being the one who did all the
apologizing. Then she came and blamed me for the on/off deal. Anyways, best
friends
turned into kinda friends to an immense fight which i fear severed our
friendship
for good. And what's worse, our two best friends were stuck in between. For a
while, they were on Mary's side, then I learned to control my fiery temper
(which had gotten out of hand and retaliated her insults once or twice) then
they began seeing how bad SHE was behaving. Now we don't even speak to one
another unlessed forced to to make those same 2 friends more comfortable around
the
both of us. The point is, I'm having mixed feelings. I feel like i want us to
be friends again, and then i don't when i think of what happened between us.
Part of me is ready to have (and i think already has) forgiven her.....but part
of me thinks that's wrong because of her treatments toward me!!!! Help!!!!!!!!
Lexxi
A> Dear Lexxi,
Ask them why they suddenly act this way when you guys were such best of friends back then. Remember, there's always a reason, they just can't just act this way for no reason at all. You guys can't break up after all these years, remind them that. And if things aren't your fault, don't apologize just yet, take a stand. Think ahead too, see the consequences, possibilities, etc. We all have these problems, I know that, it happens all the time. And since she really hurt you, tell her that. Also, get her to realize on what she says, ask her, "How do you feel if I said that to you?" You don't even say anything bad to her too, right? So tell her that too. I really hope everything works out for you, you have my blessings!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> hey phoebe,
my life is sorta ok. but i still have my problems in life just like everyone else to!i want to act just like you and i want to take life by the head and take full advantage! but i just dont know where to look to get discovered and stay in school at the same time because not many people get discovered in mobile alabama. i am 13 and i cant wait any longer and i wont give up hope that i might just some day i get discovered.and i am really energetic and i was just wondering if you have any advice for a 13 year old tring to act
and what should i do about my friends that just stop talking to me all together ,and when i ask them whats wrong they look at me like i am an alien or some dirt on their shoe.i have to say whats on my mind ,because it will only make things worse ,there is more room on the out side than on the inside!
P.S you and holly are my fav. actors
p.s.s if you want to e-mail me the advice my web address is Fan4everp3@ aol.com
P.s.s.s please dont put my address on the site if u put it up!
~*lea*~
A> Dear Lea,
You're 13, you have the rest of your life! Trust, me you have time. If you want to act, you can take lessons in school, drama classes, there really fun! But, I got to tell you, it really does pay money to be in show business.. So save up your money! :)
Oh, and about your friends, I'm trully am sorry.. It happens to at least almost everyone in life! And it's really good to speak your mind, it's healthy. And for the next time you ask what's wrong and they just look at you in a weird way, ask them why they always do that to you. You didn't do anything wrong to them, right? I mean, there's no right for them to do that if they have no reason whatsoever. You guys are friends, remind them you love them and care. Don't get them to walk all over you, take a stand, you can't just leave this alone without any logic explanation.
Love always,
Phoebe
Q> hey alyssa
um.............. i hav a lot of probs in ma life!!!!! can u plz help me???
1) My hole family thinks im a alien becoz i love being by myself!!!!!!!!!!! im alwayz in a different room 2 evry1 else!!!!!!!!!! I juz wanted to know wat i should do!!!!!!!
2) I hav this "frend" but i absolutely hate her!!!!!!!!!! this is the only way i can describe her without swearing!!!! selfish, arrigent, snoby cow that has no frendz!!!!!!!!!! wat should i say 2 tell her i hate her without hurting her feelings???
3) well i juz saw 2 scary moviesz that i shouldnt hav been watching in the first place!!!!!!!! 1z called 'Boness' and 1z called 'se7en'!!!!!!! i cant get the picz out of my head!!!!!!! wat should i do???
thanx!!!!!!! from ur frend hayley lauterbach!!!!!!!!!!!!
p.s. can u tell rose, holly, shannen, julian, and brian i said hi??? thanx!!!!!!!
A> Dear Haley,
1.) Who cares what people think, being yourself is the most greatest thing happening! Just be yourself, it doesn't matter if people complain, if your personality is warming up the crowd, or out-going, or talkative, so be it! You can't act like someone or something else, you'll just be faking and lying to yourself and others. Act as what you want, trust me!
2.) Well.. You can't really just comfront and say you hate her, just take it slow. Like, how you hate her attitude. Say she says the wrong thing. Question her on why she does that. Tell her that most people won't appreciate what she does and she doesn't want people to hate her. Hmmm, It's really hard to explain. When I was a teenager, I use to have this friend who ALWAYS says the wrong thing, meaning it or not. I remember this one time she called people "fat" or "heavy". I hated it, it was REALLY annoying me. Then, I just came straight out, I told her to stop doing that. I also told her that the more she continues with it, the more people would dislike her, and I didn't want that to happen, so she had to watch what she would say. You know what I mean? Just tell her to stop what she does and give her a reason why.
3.) Eek! Scary movies... I like the old fashioned ones. Well, there's not really anything you can do about it.. You can try just to picture something else. If it all of a sudden pops in your head, just think of something else. Like a song, or what you need to do for tomorrow, etc.
I hope tha answers it, Bye!
Love always,
Phoebe
Q> I find that I am actually able to move things with my mind because, once, when I was in my room at my house, I was staring at my pen, which was lying on my table and it started moving towards me until it fell of the desk. I don't know what's going on.
sincerely,
Freaked Out.
A> Dear Freaked Out,
Be calm about this, try not to panic. It's actually a gift! Like I said to one of my comlumnist, it's really unique to have such a power. And use it for good too. It's not healthy to use it for granted or for anything bad. Trust me, it'll come back to haunt you, and there's nothing you can do about it. So use it for good use, help people out. You can also save a life too! And also practice it, if you don't, your powers will start to flip out, and you couldn't really control it. It'll be hard at first, but later on, it'll get easier and easier.
Love and Peace,
Phoebe
Q> hey phoebe..
i kind of have a problem.. it is just that i fall i love to easy. Basically all i have to do is look at someone and if they are really hot i love them.. and most of them are just what no one wants in a relationship. I honestly think that coal is deffenatily hott!! wow if i were you i would keep him on my hip.. he is a great looking guy! and to kiss him must be heaven. I am only 15 but i think that i might have to get over all guys and love myself!! What should i do??
the person who falls in love to easy..
Tanya
A> Dear Tanya,
Don't be so hard on yourself, I know at least almost everyone has that problem. I also had that too when I was in high school, somewhere around there. Well, basically, if you see a cute guy, you can't just fall in love with them that quickly, try not to do that. I believe it's a crush, when you really know you fell in love with someone is when he you're comfortable with him and you can share almost everything with him. Get to know them first, find out they're personality. Trust me, if they have a bad one and they are all rude and just plain mean to you, you wouldn't like them very much, and I know, that happened to me before... So just get to know them, see how they are like. When I met Cole, it was just a crush. But, when we spent more time together, right then and there, I knew I loved him. Even when me and my sisters found out he was a demon, I still couldn't vanquish him! We would save each other, die for each other, that's how big our love was... But later on, I couldn't trust him anymore... Love is about trust and honesty, and he broke that... I know he was hot and stuff, but he just broke my heart.. He would hurt my sisters, and I know he wouldn't hurt me, but I know sometime soon he will, so we had to vanquish him.. Well, Tanya, follow my advice, get to know them first.
Love always,
Phoebe
Q> Hey Phoebe,
I absolutely luv Charmed!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I watch it every time its on even on foxtel!!!!!!! So now I can watch Season 2, Season 3 and Season 5 all 1 week!!!!!!! Anywayz, I got The Power Of Three Ultra-Premium Trading Cards!!!!!!!!!! The night b4 I had a dream about getting then and showing my dad!!! When I got them and showed my dad, I recognized everything around me and everything I did!!!!! I looked down at my cards and I couldnt believe what I saw!!!!! I was holding the exact same cards as in my dream!!!!! My best frend told its not good for to be that obsessed with something and now I no that its true!!! Its exactly like a Premonition!!!!!!! You know wat Premonitions feel like, so wat should I do?????
From Hayley Lauterbach!!!
P.S. Now I no that when a best friend tells you something, you should believe it!!!!!!! You do a great job on Charmed!!!! What is it like working with Holly Marie Combs, Rose McGowan, Shannen Doherty, Julian McMahon, and Brian Krause??? I drew a pic that looks exactly like Belthazor, too!!!
cya!!!!!!!!!
_______@hotmail.com
;) ;) ;)
A> Dear _______@hotmail.com,
It's pretty cool having a premonition! It's great that you had one too. Calm down, it's a unique gift to have such a thing. I was very excited when I had my first premonition, it was great. I had such a rush too. I dont know what to tell you but it's great! Also, if you've been having it constantly, then try helping people with it. If it's a bad sign, then you know you have to help people. And it's been great working with the cast, they're all very nice and they have such a unique talent to be acting. I've been blessed to work with them!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> Hey phoebe i have a problem!
i alllllllllways try to look, dress and act like you.But i done get very far because u are the prettiest girl ever.
u are my role model i know that you probally get this every day but im ur BiGgEsSt fan
loadsa luv Kymxxxxxxxxxxx
A> Dear Kym,
Oh shucks... You're so nice, thank you! *blushes* Well, you don't have to be like me or dress like me. You are also the most prettiest girl, Kym. I bet you have a GREAT personality, that you don't even have to act like me! I bet you are the most gorgeous girl in the inside and out! Be yourself, take my word on it. Let out the best, funny, nice, generous person you are! Thanks for being such a great fan! It's really nice knowing that I have one. Thanks for watching Charmed! BYE!
Love ya,
Phoebe
Q> HI PHOEBE,
okay my problem is.. i have these 2 best friends.. and i have been best friends with them since... wooo before i could remember..anyways we have done everything together... and well now they arent friends anymore.... cuz of a guy.. anyways one of the best friends...we will call her...phoebe for now and the other will will call her.. piper..okay well phoebe... met this guy... and well it use to be piper's soon to be brother in law...... well now he is with phoebe.. okay so piper and phoebe... who were like sister.. we all were... dont speak.. so i have been running between the 2.
okay so now phoebe moves by me..... with her new boy friend.. well i dont like him and he doesnt like me... so he moves her away and said he did it cuz he doesnt like me.... and before she left we were as close as ever.. and now that she moved with him she hates me and i dont know why........ i want to call her but i dont know what to say... her boyfriend doesnt think we should be friends and i think she is taking his advice.. i love her more than anything.. we are best friends and not to mention cousins....... we have been friends for 11 years now..... what do i do....
A> Dear Anonymous,
This is one of the biggest situations I've heard.. Well, I've been through that problem too. My advice to you is that you should remind Phoebe about the good times you, Piper, and her had. I know it probably sounds kind of corny, but it's a head start. Remember, friends gotta stick together, you can't just end that for a guy. If he doesn't like you, oh well, he has to deal with that, but it doesn't mean that both of them will hate you too, it just isn't fair. Ask her this, is it even worth it? I mean, get her to realize that HE was the reason that she changed a bit, that she doesn't like you. It probably wasn't even her choice to begin with. I mean, gosh, you guys have known each other for a VERY long time! Did she notice her different reaction at all? I mean, yeah, Phoebe and that guy love each other, but you can't risk that looooong relationship that you, her, and Piper had. So in a smaller sentence, get her to remember most cherishing moments all three of you had. Nobody can EVER change that, not even a guy. Peachez27426, did that answer it? Well, I REALLY hope it all works out and gets back to normal! Bye, and good luck!
Bunches of Love,
Phoebe
Q> Dear Phoebe,
hi how r u.. im fine well i really love ur show i mean its the greatest but i have a problem i no that u probally really dont have powers but i cant get over my self of having powers of my own its like a obsession i just dont wut to do????
ur biggest fan
jessie
A> Dear Jessie,
Me? Ditto, Just busy with my work. Thanks for being a fan! Anyways, your obsession? I think it's cute! And yes, we don't have powers. All I can say is that you have to keep telling yourself that none of this is true. You can always role play on having powers though, I bet that'll be fun. Well, it'll go away some day, trust me on that. As you start to age, you'd fade away with your past obsessions. So believe me on this, And thanks for loving the show! Bye!
Love Always,
Phoebe
Q> HI Phoebe what do I do if I like someone and I don't want to tell them ?
BY kk
A> Dear KK,
I had this ALL the time when I was younger.. If you don't want to tell them, then there's another step, why don't you impress them? Well, there's a list of suggestions, most of all, the personality. Im pretty sure you have a great one. Girls LOVE humor, the more you draw attention to laughter, the more she'll draw attention to you! Oh, but don't overdue it, I know some guys that overdid the humor with me, and I got sick of it... Maybe there's no love invloved, but just in case there is, word of advice, don't tell that person yet, it scares them when you say how much you love them and want to be with them, that draws to desire, and the desire frightens the other person for the fear of 'obsession'. I know, a little too much, but it happens, heheh. But most likely, just have the GREATEST personality you can get! Make her laugh, be there when she cries, make her smile. That's what a girl loves in a guy, but if it's just looks? Then, I say forget her, Im so sorry, but looks aren't everything. Well, KK, hope that solves it! Good luck, and Bye!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> Hi Phoebe, I am Sharon and I have a problem, I am giving a pool party next month and I want to invite some so called freinds but everytime I give a party of some type they don't show up even if thay say thay are. What do I do how can I get them to come and gain their trust again?
Sharon
A> Dear Sharon,
Oh, I hate though's.. I truly do, it happens to everyone at least once. Well, anyways, ask them to give you a straight up answer, will you go or not? Do you even have plans? Is your schedule full? You know, stuff like that. Keep checking up on them too, but not so much. Like, check up on them of there still going say about.. 2 days before the pool party. But then you know what? Also bring up the times when they didn't show up at an occasion. For example, it's 2 days before the pool party, you say, "Hey, so you're REALLY sure you're coming?" They say, yeah of course. And say something like.. "Ok, 'cause I really hate it when you just say you will but you never come, I don't like it..." Something like that, it should make them realize that they always flake out and that they should stop. If they still bum out, then you can move on, true friends don't do that. It's my advice, and it's your choice, you do what follows your heart. :-) Well, I hope it goes well and that they come! Oh, and remember to invite alot of people! :-) Bye!!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> My parents are really tired of my watching Charmed and want me to do other things. I do other things they just really ALL involve Charmed!! I have my own Charmed site (www.threepowers.cjb.net) I invented a charmed trading card game and I advertise Charmed in the UK. I do stuff that doesn't involve Charmed alot more then stuff that does involve Charmed yet my parents want me to do more!! What do I do?
Luv Vicky ;-)
A> Dear Vicky,
Well, I know a little girl who has the EXACT same problem as you do. Actually, she owns The Gifted Charmed Ones site! Well, anyways... I know what you mean... She had the same problem too. And this is the deal. See, when your parents are around, and you are doing and Charmed activities, start to do something else for a while. Say you're working on a Charmed site, then when your parents are coming, leave that alone for a bit, and move to another subject. For example, homework, a book, or just plain work. You don't really have to do it, at least MAKE it look like you're doing it, hehe. You can also not talk much about it around them, what gets parents is to talk to them about education. School, work, etc. Do that for a while, and they wont even notice that you still love Charmed! Oh, and Vicky, thanks for supporting the show! It's great to hear that you love it.
Love,
Phoebe
Q> Dear Phoebe,
How are you? Great here. Well I need some advice. I have this friend see he always copping or mimicking me. I try to tell him that is kind of mean or you need to try to do stuff on your own. But that doesn't seem to work. I don't if it could be a way of learning or trying to fit in or something. I really don't know. If you could help that would be great. Just wondering if you could help me if you kind of had the same problem.
Well got to run, Write later.
Your Good Friend
Zak
A> Dear Zak,
I remember having that same problem before.. Or at least doing that to my sisters, heheh. But anyways.. If I were you, I would do the same thing to him. Make him feel like what he's doing to you. And once he gets annoyed by it, then say something like, "Now you know how it feels." He should at least realize it by then. But if he still does it to you, keep on doing it to him. The more you do it, the more he'll get tired of it, and probably not mimick you anymore. Well, Zak, hope it works out with you like how it worked out with me!
Love,
Phoebe
Q> hey phoebe i need advice and i used to have 2 best friends and one of them is carol and one is kayla and now we arent friends with kayla and carol wants to be friends with her but now i am friends with her again and i want them to be friends so wut should i do ??? write back ok buh bye
always
marissa
A> Dear Marissa,
I use to have that same feeling when I was a teen. And this is my advice, just act all natural around Kayla. Casually meet them together. Now, this is what I did when I wanted two people to meet. Let's say you were walking with Carol to class, and you see Kayla, and when you see Kayla coming over, remember this, act jumpy and hyper before Kayla starts to talk to you. By the time Kayla comes, say something like, "Kayla! What's up? Well, this is my friend, Carol!" Kayla will bound to act along being hyper with you, and the will soon to talk. Either that, or Kayla'll look at you weird, but later on laugh. So you see, Marissa, act all calm and natural. Hope that answers it!
Peace and Love,
Phoebe
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